30 Days Of Blogging Left And A Gift For You All!!!- Day 335: 365 Radical Self Love Project

Holy smokes today is the final 30 day mark lovers!

radical self love kelsey grantIn 30 days from now I will have successfully completed one full year of one blog post per day! 365 blog posts!!! WHOOP WHOOP!!

In these final 30 days I intend to optimize this time together and write about the things YOU really want me to cover. This is my first of many gifts to you all! In the coming months after this blogging project wraps up I will be transitioning to a video blog format as well as weekly blogs over on my website and I would love to get into the habit of writing content based on our communities questions and interests.

So I have an ask of you.

If there is a specific topic you would like me to cover in these next 30 days let me know. Anything related to radical self love, self care, relationships, breakups, makeups, forgiveness, boundaries, trusting, healing infidelity, signs from the Universe, ego, love, fear, patience, anything about our 30 Day Program, RSL courses or RSL coaching we offer- ask away!

Send me a quick email at rsl@kelseygrant.com and give me a short heads up on your RSL or Relationship related questions and the first 30 people to write me I will be answering their questions directly on the blog for the final month. Every submission question will be kept anonymous to respect privacy of each of you love faces.

Everyone who submits a question will receive a direct response from me confirming we received the question and approximately the date your question will be addressed on the blog. If we end up with more than 30 questions we will find alternative creative ways to answer the questions to benefit you and the community- if you are one of those submissions I will let you know what to expect from us!

radical self love kelsey grantWhat I love about this style of sharing is, if one of you is having a challenge with anything self love, self care or relationship based, guaranteed there are many others dealing with a similar challenge. When you speak your truth and ask for what you need you give others permission to do the same and you also contribute in a massive way to the community as a whole.

I receive a lot of questions 1-1 and it makes sense to me to frame the inquiries in such a way where all of us can benefit from the insights, wisdom and coaching. Really excited to step it up a notch for the final stretch! I am so very grateful for each and every one of you lovers who have joined me in co-creating this community. This past year of blogging and radical self love adventures has been pretty wild and deeply transformative and this gift one of the best ways I can illustrate my gratitude and give a massive THANK YOU for all of the support and love!

Send me your questions loves and lets rock these final 30 Days together in a HUGE way! xo (rsl@kelseygrant.com)

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

The Day Of Universal YES’s- Day 333: 365 Radical Self Love Project

As some of you may know, I am a lover of numbers-

It is one of the ways I make sense of the messages the Universe is always sending our way.

There are many different ‘omens’ or modes of messages the Universe sends our way. Depending on our unique make up, passions, areas of strength and interest we will notice certain forms more than others.

Numbers, colours, oracle cards and animal symbology are my strong suits to interpret and today is a massively significant day for my numerology lovin’ mind and heart.

333 represents a Universal YES.

Anytime we see this number it is a confirmation that what ever we were doing, saying or thinking when we saw the number is fully supported by the Universe and we are getting a massive YES to keep along that path. (If you want a little more insight you can check out this VIDEO of me decoding the number sequence 333, when I worked as a numerologist and host for the numerologist.com)

It is fitting that today I awoke with the intention to say YES to life and above all else ensure that my top priority is keeping my vibes in alignment. When my energy is in alignment I flow, creativity pours out of me, life is effortless and it is a giddy adventure.

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I had the pleasure of gently starting my day with some snuggles and smooches from my man. Then he got up and I got to my leisurely wake up routine.

I laid in my bed for about 10 minutes just appreciating things about my life as it was in that moment. Then I grabbed my gratitude journal and did my daily gratitude writing. Following those feel good vibes I hopped into meditation. I rocked my 6 minutes of ego harmonizing then straight into 108 cycles of my RSL mantra- I am Divine Love”.

Following the completion of my mantra I had a nice conversation with my inner being. I asked to be guided to people, situations, circumstances for my highest good and highest potential, to use my body, mind and expression as a vessel for Divine love expression and to bless each and every being I crossed paths with today. Upon finishing my meditation I drank a bottle of water and was ready to start my day.

radical self love kelsey grantFollowing the completion of my morning routine I received an email from a potential new place that both my partner and I love confirming we have an appointment to see it this week. This house is everything we are looking for and it was just a sweet confirmation from the Universe that we are on the right path in taking this next step to go look at the space.

Next up I had a wonderful call with my accountability partner where we shared some wonderful insights with each other about honouring our pace, how to manage and transform any feelings of resentment that often show up after making a long term commitment with work (I’ll be writing about this one later this week) and a awesome perspective share on only doing the shit you like to do. Only doing the things that bring you joy allows other people the space and invitation to do what they love which is likely all the shit you don’t- humans are magical that way.

Then I hopped onto my daily writers training and uncovered some serious gems about my process, and so so so much confirmation that I am totally on purpose and taking the appropriate steps towards the completion of the ebook and the future publishing of the full length book! Feeling pretty buzzed and stoked on life!

With that being said I’m going to bravely share some of the Universal Yes projects we have in the works:

1. Launch of the first free RSL ebook “Sabotaged Love- The 12 Archetypes Keeping You From The Love You Want”
2. Upon completion of this 365 blogging project we will be transforming all the blog posts into an interactive multimedia Apple iBook and a couple other products and ebooks.
3. Our free monthly RSL mastermind call
4. Our membership RSL Relationship Mastermind
5. Release of the second RSL ebook “From Breakup to Breakthrough- 15 Steps To Heal Your Heart and Move Forward Fearlessly”
6. My first 12 week relationship and heart healing virtual program “From Breakup to Breakthrough”
7. And finally one of the projects I’ve been super pumped (and confronted) to launch: the RSL video series called “Ask The Oracle- sage advice to support your relationships and radical self love journey”. Eventually my vision is to turn this baby into a live coaching show where each week I bring on a guest who is comfortable sharing their coaching journey with our beautiful community, I will coach them through an area of challenge and upset and bring them to a resolution in 30 minutes! SO EXCITED!!!!

Let me know in the comments below which of these you are most looking forward to and I can prioritize them based on what you love faces are really wanting to receive from me πŸ™‚

As I continue go through this beautiful day just saying a big fat YES to life I invite you to do the same and watch the miracles unfold! You are magical and amazing saying yes to your brilliance and yes to life is one of the best ways to remember who you truly are πŸ˜‰

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

An Epicly Successful Workshop Complete! Day 320: 365 Radical Self Love Project

Tonight we seriously ROCKED out at our workshop on Divine Compensation and Abundance Consciousness!!

This particular workshop was rooted in the foundation of self love and from there designed to support actors, musicians and artists of all types in getting out of their own way and aligning with the Universal goodness within them.

Inside of this alignment they make themselves available to cultivate their ability to receive abundance of all kinds!

Being in the room, in a total state of flow I feel so blessed to have watched the AH-HA! moments clicking in everyone there. It was such an honour to hold space and facilitate for such an incredible room of game changers!

I’m deeply grateful for the generosity of Shoreline Actors Studio for brining us into their amazing community and allowing us the physical space to host such an incredible night!

I am so very deeply grateful for my co-pilot tonight the beautiful Brittney Grabill who kept the flow of the evening right on point and for holding such amazing space for my facilitation to flow through!

Tonight opened up a whole world of potential and I am so very excited to watch and see what the Universe has in store!!!

Feeling very blessed ❀

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Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

Gratitude, Amazing Friends and a Sun Filled Day of Goodness- Day 311: 365 Radical Self Love Project

This morning I awoke to the man I loved, still sniffly and not 100% but it really didn’t matter because we woke up in each others arms and snuggled and giggled our way into starting the day-

For this I am so grateful.

For the early morning walk to the store for breakfast supplies and our morning coffee-

For this I am so grateful.

For the amazing conversations I had with people all day long for a super duper high calibre inspirational event-

For this I am so grateful.

For the house hunting and the show suits we viewed today-

For this I am so grateful.

For the love, encouragement and super thoughtful reach outs from my soul tribe-

For this I am so grateful.

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For the ‘healing booch’ kombucha home made with love and delivered to me this afternoon by one of my soul sistas-

For this I am so grateful.

For the speedy and mindful healing of my body-

For this I am so grateful.

To spend my life in ways that are meaningful, purpose filled and with people who fill my heart up with greatness-

For this I am so grateful.

For the bright and beautiful day today-

For this I am so grateful.

For all the expansive potential within me-

For this I am so grateful.

Gratitude changes everything. Go ahead, give it a try

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Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

The A-Z of Dance AKA Inspiration To The MAX!-Day 304: 365 Radical Self Love Project

Human beings are freaking amazing!!

I’m a big fan of dance, I always have and always will be.

I saw this video a few days ago and it was so incredibly inspiring. I love how it demonstrates the epic capacity of what is possible. Who knew there were so many new styles of dance and movement! So so so RAD!

Take a few minutes tonight, be amazing and enjoy the epic groove of this vid!

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

Why We Should Be Hyper Selective In Who We Take Advice From- Day 302: 365 Radical Self Love

I’ve been having some really incredible conversations with clients over the past few days and there have been some incredibly synergy inside of all of our chats.

One thing that keeps coming up is “How do I know whose advice to listen to?”.

So I’m going to address it here on the blog as I imagine many more of you who are on the path of self development and self love are faced with a similar internal conversation.

Here is the think if you are just stepping into your awakening and your transformation people in your community most likely are not going to like it. They might have a lil shit fit, influence you to not go down the path of inner work or be full of reasons why personal development is a waste of time and a totally rip off and fill your head with less than empowering advice.

I have experienced all of this.

So why oh why do the people we think love us behave like this?

Because your transformation, evolution threatens the “safety” of their illusion. If you begin to look at yourself and make positive changes, it will mirror to them where they are NOT and thats not a fun thing to face. If you start creating results, transforming your body, mind and life it will completely debunk their internal ego story that nothing changes, people can’t change, victim,victim victim. To keep from having to deal with their own shit they will often try and deter you any way they can. ***Note this is often completely unconscious behaviour and they are not usually maliciously trying to keep you stuck***

See them through new eyes

When you elevate your perspective and awareness you can begin to see their behaviour as serving a deeper function. At the core they just want you to be happy and stepping into the unknown threatens the possibility of what they perceive happiness to be. So really when your friends try and keep you from going forward, in a strange sense it is their way of demonstrating to you that they care and just don’t want to see you get hurt by going into the unknown.

It is also a MEGA soul test for you- will you allow them to control your behaviour or will you assert yourself and stand in your truth?

radical self love kelsey grantWhen we are out of integrity and living out of alignment our egos will select company who will reinforce the stories we tell ourselves to keep justifying our behaviour. We attract people who will tell us what we want to hear not what we need to hear.

As we level up and awaken to our unlimited potential the people we attract into our lives will change. These new peeps will be straight talkers, they will call us out on our BS and they will not always tell us what we want to hear but what we need to hear for our highest good and the highest good of all involved.

Their advice will be firm but filled with love. They will see you as your greatness and relate to you as someone who is CAPABLE of making the much needed changes to fulfill your soul’s mission.

Anyone who relates to you as capable of being a greater version of yourself, calls you to heal yourself and encourages you to seek the answers within you are the people that will be the most beneficial to listen to. Ultimately these people act as mirrors- they mirror to you the wisdom of your spirit. They reflect to you the beautiful truth that resides deep within you.

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As a teacher, facilitator and coach of all things self love and relationships I can simply say, I only ever reflect back to you that which is lying dormant within you and is ready to become activated and conscious in your awareness. I will never teach you something you don’t already know on a spiritual level. Both parties knowing this is a mega access point to long term sustainable progress and transformation.

In the coming weeks I will be releasing registration for 2 incredible mastermind communities:

1. The Radical Self Love Relationship Mastermind. BΒ This is a free mastermind for all those peeps who are a part of our RSL community and are looking for a community of like minded and like hearted women to explore the depth of possibility all our romantic relationships hold for us. I have 24 spots available for this mastermind and will be interviewing each participant to ensure harmony and compatibility. If you are interested feel free to email me and we can get a head start on setting up that initial call.

2. My first ever group coaching class- From Breakup To Breakthrough. This is a program I will be doing likely once a year. It is a 12 week curriculum designed specifically for women who have experienced a breakup recently and are ready to do the heart work to heal and get into delicious alignment for the relationship they are worthy and deserving of. This classroom is limited to 10 women and will be a combination of live coaching calls, video tutorials, workbooks and real time actions. The specific details will be released soon (dates, cost and curriculum outline) if you want to be first on the list to receive the details and claim a spot email me with the subject line “I Love Myself And I’m Ready To Move Forward”.

It is absolutely possible to be a part of both communities if that is the calling of your heart πŸ™‚

Ultimately the path of Radical Self Love will have us develop our ability to listen to our own higher guidance the majority of the time. But hey we are all human and we will need those amazing, positive and possibility minded peeps to reflect back to us our divine wisdom from time to time.

When you are receiving advice from anyone just remember you aren’t obligated to take anyones advice if it insults your soul in any capacity. Rule of spirituality and personal development 101: Take what works for you and leave all the rest. Weigh any advice you receive against the truth of your heart and you will end up in the most beautiful of places πŸ˜‰

To your brilliance,

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

Dealing With Residual Anger and Upset On Your RSL Journey- Day 301: 365 Radical Self Love Project

Lets face it we all have a shadow and sometimes that shadow comes in the package of anger. When delving into the path of self love and relationships we are bound to come face to face with any residual energies … Continue reading

Cycles of Completion and Celebrating A HUGE Win-Day 299: 365 Radical Self Love Project

Tonight we completed the first ever Radical Self Love Relationship Course!!!!

9 weeks of self love, numerology and relationship goodness wrapped up this evening and I am overwhelmed with happiness and truly proud of this incredible milestone.

This course marked the beginning of my path exploring my role as a relationship and self love teacher and I can say with full gusto that this was one of the most fulfilling and soul expanding courses I have ever taught.

Spirituality meets psychology meets mysticism meets metaphysics all wrapped up in real time authentic vulnerability.

I am so grateful for the group of incredible women who have participated in this journey with me and for embracing each week with an open heart, an open mind and a willingness to co-create magic within their relationships. The first classroom of any course is always deeply special for me as it symbolizes deep trust and encouragement on a soul level.

I bow in great gratitude to each of you ladies! Thank you for trusting in me. Thank you for showing up and thank you for paving the way for the blossoming of more classrooms like you to step up into love.

I love you are so deeply!

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With this huge milestone complete I will now be heading into creation mode again and putting together some new exciting things for all of us here at RSL. A sneek preview:

  1. A monthly RSL relationship mastermind for all of the Goddesses within our tribe
  2. A new group coaching course “From Breakup to Breakthrough” a curriculum to heal your heart and move forward
  3. The newest RSL course “Sex, Love and Intimacy”- Opening the Gateway to Divine Connection and the Sacred Feminine.

I will be offering this course again in the near future so for all of you who were interested in attending this round but the dates/timing didn’t pan out send me an email at rsl@kelseygrant.com and I will send over the next start dates for this course.

And for anyone interested in any of the options above feel free to email me for more details and we’ll take it from there!!!

So very excited to be on this path with you all- you inspire me greatly- and for those beautiful angels this morning (you know who you are) who sent me incredible messages of positive encouragement your beams of love deeply touched my heart and inspired me in ways I can’t even explain.

Massive Love to each and every one of you!

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

Creating Space With A Lil Spring Cleaning- Day 294: 365 Radical Self Love Project

Given that tonight my man is home tonight I thought I would do a lil cleaning in our house today to make sure he has a nice clean space to come home to.

Anytime I go away I always love coming home to a super clean and organized space. It’s like starting fresh on a nice clean canvas.

As I was cleaning the apartment I thought I would take it a little further and actually do a clean out of my closet as well. Nothing says creating space like cleaning out the closet literally and figuratively.

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The entire time he’s been gone I’ve had the chance to go through my internal closet and clean shit out that really no longer serves any purpose being in my mind, my energy and my heart. Some outdated beliefs and patterns had to go and this time apart allowed me the space to purge them and clean out my mind, my energy and my heart.

With all the mind cleaning I chose to do some body cleaning too and made sure to juice every day and get back on the 5 days a week exercise train. Combining the practices of internal mind cleaning and internal organ cleaning was a really good move. My energy feels back to a really stable place, I’m happier lately, I’ve been waking up early in the morning without an alarm and I feel lighter- like a massive weight has been lifted off of my heart.

So with all this spiritual and body cleansing I wanted to really make some more space in our physical environment so today I cleaned out my closet. I let go of a bunch of clothes and felt really great about it knowing those clothes would now get to go to new homes to people who would really appreciate them. I did a silent blessing on each item I gave away and infused it with positive blessings and energy for it’s new owner.

Now with a clean home, a clean mind and a clean heart I welcome my babe back. I am so freaking excited to pick him up tonight and see his handsome face and reconnect with his incredible heart- and now our home has even more space. Space that we can fill with new positive intention and loads and heaps of love.

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

Divine Compensation and Abundance Consciousness: A Workshop For Artists, Musicians and Actors- Day 286: 365 Radical Self Love Project

When one door closes another one opens.

Last month I made the big decision to stop our local monthly RSL workshops. It was a choice I didn’t make lightly. My inner guidance had been encouraging to make the move and there was a part of me that was really resistant- after all I love teaching and I love facilitating a live session. Magic happens when people are in the same room, absorbing the same information and creating the space of inspiration and growth to emerge.

Listening to my inner guide means trusting even when things don’t make sense.

I couldn’t see why at the time I was being redirected out of those workshops but I trusted it was for my highest good and the highest good for all involved. After holding strong in my faith and positive belief it is becoming more clear why that shift has taken place.

First and foremost it allows me to make the transition from teaching primarily from the context of “self love” and shift towards my passions which are relationships. I freaking love love. I have been obsessed with relationships and love my entire life. My path here is to support people in co-creating incredibly and fulfilling relationships. The foundation for this spiritual love, intimate love and romantic love is always rooted in self love—ahhhh it’s all making sense meow;)

Additionally as a musician I have a strong pull to support artists in getting their talent and gifts out in the world which means getting out of their own way. Getting out of their own way means building the confidence. What is at the core of confidence? You guessed it self love.

Getting to the Core of Confidence: Divine Compensation and Abundance Consciousness for Artists, Musicians and Actors

I’ve been asked by a local actors studio to come in an facilitate regular workshops for the acting, musician and artistic communities teaching confidence, self love and divine compensation. It is such a incredible manifestation and merging of all my areas of passion. What I love most about this opportunity is that it was born out of my young adult RSL Mentorship Program.

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Giving and Receiving

Once a year I choose one person to work with closely, share wisdom and support for 6-12 months depending on their journey. This year I am working with the brilliantly talented Brittney Grabill. Brittney is an actor and incredibly talented musician who has a deep desire to positively impact the world through her art. I see massive potential in her and it’s been such a blessing watching her grow and thrive this past year.

The final phase of our mentorship is group and public facilitation. There is no better way to learn how to do something than jumping in and learning on the court. We designed an opportunity where she would be able to step up and co-facilitate a workshop while still being able to observe and take in my teaching style and developing her own from my example.

This ongoing workshop series is a result of our co-creation and I am so proud to be working along side her. The next workshop is scheduled for April 17th here in Vancouver. For all you local cats here are all the event details if you want to join in the fun!

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels