Asking For Help- It’s What Radical Self Lovers Do! Day 101: 365 Radical Self Love Project

Asking for help is an attribute of strength.

Somehow in our human experience we got it in our heads that asking for help is a sign of weakness, and my dear friends I’m going to call BS on that one.

kelsey grant radical self loveIt takes way more courage to admit your vulnerability and show your authentic-ness to the world than it does to parade around pretending that everything is fine or you have everything you need-if that isn’t the reality. We all have our ups in life when things are going ahhhmazing and we are in the flow of awesome attraction. Then life happens. We hit a road bump and our lives seem to stall a bit. We are humans, we experience challenges and how we move through those challenges is what truly define our character. Remember, we are in this together. We ALL have these lifey moments-yes even the people you have put on a pedestal-we all experience challenge. However, how long we experience these challenges or slumps is up to us.

What does this all mean?

When we have an attitude of “oh I’ll just do it myself”, “no body understands” “I don’t need anyone’s help” we keep ourselves in the “stuck” space longer. When we open to the possibility that someone else can help us and that it’s ok and honourable to accept the support of another person we begin to take our power back.

Yes we are only ever given that which we are capable of handling. This doesn’t mean you have to fly solo and figure it all out on your own. Sometimes it means we have to access the strength and courage within us and ask for support, seek help or bounce ideas off of someone we love, trust and respect.

The feel good vibes of support

Think about how good it feels when you get to help someone you care about. Now consider this is how others feel about helping and supporting you. No one can help if they don’t know what’s up. So be honest with your friends and family. Be vulnerable and allow them the gift of contributing to you.

kelsey grant radical self love

Radical Self Lovers ask for help

kelsey grant radical self loveYesterday I asked for support. I knew our community could get to 1000 Radical Self Love lovers and I also knew I couldn’t do it alone. So I reached out. I asked my community for support and guess what within a few short hours we had exceeded our goal and now the beauty of self love is now even more present in the hearts of people world wide.

While it was internally uncomfortable to “put myself out there” and make a bold request, ultimately the request lead to a community of love growing even more than if I tried to do it all on my own.

So this week let others contribute to you, allow their support and love in and it all starts with you owning your truth and what is really going on for you. I believe in you. We all do 😉

Radical Self Love to the MAX!!!

Kels

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